ENH: improved argList handling of libs, functionObjects

- include -no-libs option by default, similar to '-lib',
  which makes it available to all solvers/utilities.
  Add argList allowLibs() method to query it.

- relocate with/no functionObjects logic from Time to argList
  itself as argList allowFunctionObjects()

- add libs/functionObjects override handling to decomposePar etc

ENH: report the stream relativeName for IOerrors (see c9333a5ac8)

applications/utilities/parallelProcessing/reconstructParMesh/reconstructParMesh.C

@@ -731,7 +731,9 @@ int main(int argc, char *argv[])
             (
                 Time::controlDictName,
                 args.rootPath(),
-                args.caseName()/("processor" + Foam::name(proci))
+                args.caseName()/("processor" + Foam::name(proci)),
+                args.allowFunctionObjects(),
+                args.allowLibs()
             )
         );
     }