ENH: improved argList handling of libs, functionObjects

- include -no-libs option by default, similar to '-lib',
  which makes it available to all solvers/utilities.
  Add argList allowLibs() method to query it.

- relocate with/no functionObjects logic from Time to argList
  itself as argList allowFunctionObjects()

- add libs/functionObjects override handling to decomposePar etc

ENH: report the stream relativeName for IOerrors (see c9333a5ac8)

applications/utilities/surface/surfaceMeshExtract/surfaceMeshExtract.C

@@ -120,7 +120,6 @@ int main(int argc, char *argv[])
 
     // Less frequently used - reduce some clutter
     argList::setAdvanced("decomposeParDict");
-    argList::setAdvanced("noFunctionObjects");
 
     argList::addArgument("output", "The output surface file");