CONFIG: improve support for compiler/link options (#1830)

- introduce WM_COMPILE_CONTROL variable to convey control information
  into the build rules.

  The convention (as per spack):
      - '+' to select a feature
      - '~' to deselect a feature

  Eg, to select the gold linker, and disable openmp
  (spaces are not required):

      WM_COMPILE_CONTROL="+gold ~openmp"

CONFIG: accept FOAM_EXTRA_LDFLAGS for AMD, gold, Mingw linkers

CONFIG: generalize PROJECT_LIBS (-ldl used almost universally)

wmake/rules/linuxIcc/general

@@ -1,10 +1,14 @@
 CPP        = /lib/cpp -traditional-cpp $(GFLAGS)
 LD         = ld -melf_i386
 
-PROJECT_LIBS = -l$(WM_PROJECT) -ldl
-
 include $(GENERAL_RULES)/standard
 include $(GENERAL_RULES)/Icc/openmp
 
+ifneq (,$(findstring ~openmp,$(WM_COMPILE_CONTROL)))
+    include $(GENERAL_RULES)/no-openmp
+endif
+
 include $(DEFAULT_RULES)/c
 include $(DEFAULT_RULES)/c++
+
+#------------------------------------------------------------------------------