CONFIG: update c++ standard, some compiler rules (partially addresses #2209)

- migrate to c++14 for most compilers *except* gcc.
  There are still many systems in use with gcc-4.8.5, which does not
  support c++14.

- initial rules for nvidia compilers (pgi is will soon be defunct).
  Not fully tested...

CONFIG: provide fallback value for the user directory name

- in containers may have an unset USER env variable.
  Default to 'user' to prevent ugly looking directory names.

wmake/rules/linux64Nvidia/c++Prof

@@ -0,0 +1,2 @@
+c++DBUG    = -pg
+c++OPT     = -O2